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TIFU my whole life. My regrets as a 46 year old, and advice to others at a crossroad : r/tifu
26K votes, 4K comments. TIFU. More like more whole life really. Hi, I my name's John. I've been lurking for a while, but I've finally made an account…
The Secret to Love Is Just Kindness - The Atlantic
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Big IDGAF Energy
Experiments in Permissionless Entrepreneurship
List of common misconceptions - Wikipedia
Each entry on this list of common misconceptions is worded as a correction; the misconceptions themselves are implied rather than stated. These entries are concise summaries; the main subject articles can be consulted for more detail.
Out to Get You
Epistemic Status: Reference. Expanded From: Against Facebook, as the post originally intended. Some things are fundamentally Out to Get You. They seek resources at your expense. Fees are hidden. E…
the friendship theory of everything
in choosing who you spend time with you choose who you are
50 Ways To Fuel A Conversation
1. Be the first to say hello. 2 Introduce yourself to others. 3. Take risks and anticipate success. 4. Remember your sense of humor. 5. Practice different ways of starting a conversation 6. Make an…
Esquire-Magazine-1987-05.pdf
Mastery
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Separation
In my experience, a key skill to develop is the ability to separate one thing from another. To prevent the small from becoming the all. Take a policy, for example. Could be a government, or a school, or a home owner’s association, or something at work. Whatever it is, you don’t like it. You don’t agree, you don’t like the decision make...
Nat Friedman
A few things about me
I would like to be paid like a plumber
Pitching Nirvana
Your Parents Are Getting Old
Your Parents Are Getting Old, Here’s What To Do:
Opinion | Happy 20th Anniversary, Gmail. I’m Sorry I’m Leaving You.
There’s a better way to do email.
The best general advice on earth « the jsomers.net blog
These are excerpts (emphasis mine) from William James's 1890 classic, Principles of Psychology, Chapter IV,
04: photography as a result of life
And in the midst of living, take a photo.
On lucidity
When someone just gets it
You need to neglect mostly everything to win big
What can you remove? What can you neglect?
RSS readers make me want to jump into a vat of acid! — Keenan
George Saunders's Advice to Graduates
George Saunders shared with us his notes for a speech he gave at Syracuse University, in which he shares how one of his biggest regrets sprang from something very small.
Chickens and pigs
Chickens and pigs is a metaphor for who's got skin in the game. Or to leave metaphors behind, who's involved in a project vs who is fully committed. Also known as the bacon and eggs principle, it's from the old joke (sometimes told as a short story), "In a bacon and eggs breakfast, the chicken is involved, but the pig is committed." Many people may be interested in and share their opinions on a project or decision. But only some will be responsible for delivering the project and directly accountable for its success. Everyone may be interested in a bet, but only some players have money to lose. The chickens and pigs metaphor used to be part of the scrum guide for developing software but was removed. While it memorably distinguishes accountability in a project, there's a danger that it alienates or diminishes valuable input that might make a project successful. For a more conventional grouping of stakeholders in a project, see RACI
How To Ask Questions The Smart Way
Elegance By Design: The Art of Less
100 Little Ideas
A list of ideas, in no particular order and from different fields, that help explain how the world works…
William Gibson on Cultivating a “Personal Micro-Culture”
On the building blocks of creativity and acquiring a sense of what feels right.
Finding the One Decision That Removes 100 Decisions (or Why I’m Reading No New Books) - The Blog of Author Tim Ferriss
Look for single decisions that remove hundreds or thousands of other decisions.
forsyth2008selfserving.pdf - https://facultystaff.richmond.edu/~dforsyth/pubs/forsyth2008selfserving.pdf
50 (Short) Rules For Life From The Stoics - RyanHoliday.net
什么是 Stoic
Be stubborn on vision. Be flexible on details
Quote from Jeff Bezos via @acanada