Most of us already watch Fifty Shades of Grey, a seductive movie that boasts spicy spanking scenes and sex; we can't deny we're all obsessed with it, and for some reason, we love to be spanked with pleasure like Anastasia Steele. Spanking is consensual smacking of your partner's ass, an accessible way to explore dynamics of submission and domination with your partner. You can start by using the palm of your hand or a specifically designed paddle for spanking like the Adam & Eve Spank Me Vibrator. Yes, a type of BDSM toy that vibrates. Spanking is a popular, super-sexy method before sex between two consenting adults. Whether you’re a beginner spanker or a powerful dominant who wants to leave a handprint on your submissive, it is a successful play as long as you both enjoy the pleasure.