Out of the FOG | Personality Disorders, Narcissism, NPD, BPD
Website and support forum that is "Written and developed by people who have experienced a relationship with a family member, spouse or partner who suffers from a Personality Disorder."
BPD Loved Ones: What media do you use to cope?
Thread about music and stuff that people use to help cope with being a victim of a pwBPD.
Things I have learnt to move on from BPD abuse
Really well-written list concerning the things to keep in mind when recovering from, and moving on from, the abuse received from being in a relationship with a person with PBD.
Excellent thread about experiences with a person with BPD
So many of the comments in this thread really hit home, and put into words my experiences, in ways I'd never be able to. I really wish I had the ability to explain like this.
What's really helpful here is it's healing to see people talk about exactly the things I went through. It's sort of reassuring to know you're not alone, you didn't imagine it, that it really did happen.
Sick Systems: How to Keep Someone With You Forever
Article going over methods of control that can be used by abusers; and also abusive employers.
Advice to Regretful pwBPD
Quote: "The number-one complaint among loved ones isn’t manipulation, splitting, mood swings, rage, jealousy, devaluation, triangulation, the victim Olympics, or really any of the well-known drama/trauma/abuse. It’s the pervasive lack of accountability."
r/BPDlovedones support wiki
Very useful support resource I wish I'd found when I needed it most. The second best time to have discovered it is now, of course.
Tips for communicating with someone with BPD
This seems like an excellent overview on how to navigate communicating with someone with BPD when their disorder is in control.
How can we expect borderline personality disorder patients to trust mental health services when the staff don’t trust them? | The Independent
One of the worst aspects of BPD, when it comes to getting help for those who suffer it.