It’s easy to get trapped in your career. Here’s how to make your trap a good one.
But I haven’t retired yet, probably won’t anytime soon, and have almost no savings. Like most people I have a remarkable talent for spending whatever I earn.
Usually, your actual, phenomenological experience is not positive. At best, it’s day to day bad, month to month good.
If you plot your experienced happiness over time, the area under the curve will often be negative. Hence the cliche, ‘if I knew what it’d be like, I’d never have started’.
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When I left university, most people did one of three things.Some friends got ‘normal jobs’, which weren’t extremely well paid or traditionally ambitious. These friends explore their preferences outside work and, if they’re lucky, have a job they’re interested in.Other friends got ‘good jobs’, which paid more and were considered ambitious. They usually weren’t interested in the work itself, except insofar as it made the job prestigious. These jobs have taken up most of their time since — how else could they be ambitious?A few friends (I studied philosophy, so you know the type) tried to abstain from both normal and good jobs, but have largely caved by now.
They don’t come with an idea worth spending a decade on. They don’t know who they’ll spend a decade with. They don’t know about the area under the curve. They discover it, and then it’s too late to do anything else.
If you’re able to go far, think hard about where you’re aimed: the farther you can go the longer you’ll spend getting there.
Pick your trap, or someone else will pick it for you.