Social media promised connection, but it has delivered exhaustion.
Social media was built on the romance of authenticity. Early platforms sold themselves as conduits for genuine connection: stuff you wanted to see, like your friend’s wedding and your cousin’s dog.
The feed no longer feels crowded with people but crowded with content
The problem is not just the rise of fake material, but the collapse of context and the acceptance that truth no longer matters as long as our cravings for colors and noise are satisfied
Even TikTok has begun to plateau. People aren’t connecting or conversing on social media like they used to; they’re just wading through slop, that is, low-effort, low-quality content produced at scale, often with AI, for engagement
Social media’s death rattle will not be a bang but a shrug.
people scroll not because they enjoy it, but because they don’t know how to stop
Some creators are quitting, too. Competing with synthetic performers who never sleep, they find the visibility race not merely tiring but absurd. Why post a selfie when an AI can generate a prettier one? Why craft a thought when ChatGPT can produce one faster?
These are the last days of social media, not because we lack content, but because the attention economy has neared its outer limit — we have exhausted the capacity to care
These platforms haven’t just captured attention, they’ve enclosed the commons where social, economic and cultural capital are exchanged. But enclosure breeds resistance, and as exhaustion sets in, alternatives begin to emerge.
the future points to a quieter, more fractured, more human web, something that no longer promises to be everything, everywhere, for everyone.
This is a good thing. Group chats and invite‑only circles are where context and connection survive
We can dream of a digital future in which communities form around shared interests and mutual care rather than algorithmic prediction
The key is diversity, delivering an ecosystem of civic digital spaces that each serve specific communities with transparent governance
The goal is not to build a digital ministry of truth, but to create pluralistic public utilities
We need to “rewild the internet,” as Maria Farrell and Robin Berjon mentioned in a Noema essay
Bluesky’s AT Protocol explicitly allows users to port identity and social graphs, but it’s very early days and cross-protocol and platform portability remains extremely limited, if not effectively non-existent