xkcd: Asterisk Corrections
Substrate
Convey it, don’t say it
Sneak-peaks are more powerful than messages.
Group Chat Rules
“ME: *responds to DM* ME: *checks off todo item* PERSON: *writes back* ME: ME: *makes new todo item*”
ME: *responds to DM* ME: *checks off todo item* PERSON: *writes back* ME: ME: *makes new todo item*
anyway those are my unstructured thoughts about the group chat. shoutout to the group chat!! hopefully i get to be in one one day
there is nothing more joyous than seeing a conversation bloom and meander and twist and blossom in a safe and intimate group chat among friends. it feels to me like a unique type of mediated communication that i struggle to find an in-person analog to. that wild, freeform energy of people you love all sharing and expressing and listening and hearing all at the same time is so exciting!! it feels like this explosion of simultaneous and related thoughts that all still coalesce and move together maybe it's similar to a group of people all talking together in-person! but so many in-person practices and etiquettes don't really translate to the group chat, so it feels more sudden and energetic in a way like in the group chat, it feels like there's a talking over each other but in a way that is responsive and doesn't feel rude! and in the group chat, you don't navigate that anxiety of "do i speak now, do i not, is what i'm gonna say gonna be ignored" as much, in my opinion i think it's partially because in speech, there is a limit where truly only one person can be talking at a time. in the group chat, through text, everyone can be constantly talking and listening all at the same time and there is a brilliant energy to that!! anyway those are my unstructured thoughts about the group chat. shoutout to the group chat!! hopefully i get to be in one one day
Lessons from the Group Chat: Statuses
The Lost Art of Instant Messaging
you generally felt a sense of presence with your contacts. You at least knew what to expect, generally, when you messaged somebody. The expectation is the conversation never really ends, but in fact, it never really starts, either.
“We were excited to see someone ‘online.’ Now, we don't even have a offline status.”
We were excited to see someone "online".Now, we don't even have a offline status.— marc-antoine (@marcantoinefon) March 21, 2019
“Thanks for reading! Hopefully with your help we'll be wishing the Web a happy 60th birthday in another thirty years.”
Thanks for reading! Hopefully with your help we'll be wishing the Web a happy 60th birthday in another thirty years. 😍🌐— John F🎃minella 🌠 (@jxxf) March 12, 2019
Learnings from Ketch (so far)
“thoughts from the past few weeks - think a lot of folks confuse the terms: social, messaging, communication, and consumer - you're stuck in blue bubble purgatory as friends until you have a synchronous convo 🗣 or IRL coffee - calendar battleship is a real drag for everyone”
Who Sends the First Text?