You keep looking for home, but you know where it is… It’s you! It’s only ever you

“people that work from home” are not equivalent to “people who are available do your bidding 24/7 just because they work from home” thanks additionally, as someone who has had this happen to them, it’s really shitty to make fun of people who are home “a lot” or to assume they’ll always be there and then get upset when they *do* go out and have appointments and plans just like “a normal person” there have been points in my life where i’ve been home a lot, and had to make myself leave even if i was lonely, and it was critical to my health. more recently, i’ve had more reasons (and energy) to leave. there are so many reasons people stay inside. be nice and understanding

hello! here are my slides from my talk at @brooklyn_js - thanks again for your support, and i'd be happy to work with you/your company on more cute, creative tech projects

“i want to give a gentle reminder that telling someone they “need to get laid” or “need” anything romantic/sexual to help remedy their situation, this can be highly inappropriate for several reasons and hurtful to those on the asexual spectrum”

finished pup portrait pic.twitter.com/zMgQcUrNYj— bb ghost (@emilywithcurls) March 5, 2019

skimming thru my phone and realized that i started yesterday’s private personal journal entry with “HEY it’s YOUR GIRL back from a long weekend” and it just now hit me how hopelessly nerdy i am— bb ghost (@emilywithcurls) February 18, 2019

pic.twitter.com/DRD9DUZh5Y— bb ghost (@emilywithcurls) February 2, 2019

i can't stress enough how much it's helped/healed me to be in a relationship where my partner asks for and accepts help from me. it's cool to be properly self-sufficient, of course, but it can also be really damaging to not ask for help or accept the occasional favor— bb ghost (@emilywithcurls) November 22, 2018