Essentially, deciding that you’re Too Old is deciding that this the right moment for you to choose depth over breadth. ​ Choosing to be Too Old is the selective closing of your heart in certain domains so you can keep it open in others. ​ Not everything that’s amazing is meant for you, and, whether you like it or not, you will miss out on nearly everything. ​ …it’s all about deeply understanding who you are, specifically, and not apologizing for it.

“happy monday.”

Many of us think of love and happiness as an object – a thing to obtain. And once we have it, we’re scared to let it go. But there’s a better way to look at it – and even create more of it, without fear of loss.

It took me a long time to see past forever projects. I told myself that making promises gave beginnings gravity. I labeled my newsletter  a “lifelong project” not long after I started it. I called /mentoring a “movement” the day I announced it. Commitment marked a project as something w