You still falsely believe that it was bullying yourself that made your life change, when it was in fact giving yourself grace.

I’m confident about the inputs. That’s my line. That’s a daily thought and frame of mind. Where I get scared is…maybe I am deluding myself and using the inputs as a self-defensive mechanism.

“What can I do to help you get there and make a decision?” What a fantastic question — and especially when holding space for friends to think things through.