Benny’s 2018 Year in Review
Substrate
“I feel PROFOUNDLY uncomfortable with a 60 degree day in February; this weather is like when someone you know hates you suddenly starts being incredibly nice to you”
“What emoji do you send when you make a bad pun in a workplace Slack and then want to make a non-apology apology?”
What emoji do you send when you make a bad pun in a workplace Slack and then want to make a non-apology apology?— Jane Solomon (@janesolomon) February 5, 2019
Strong and Weak Technologies
Weak technologies adapt to the world as it currently exists. Strong technologies adapt the world to themselves. Progress depends on strong technologies.
This ‘Equity’ picture is actually White Supremacy at work
Yes, the person who is on the slope requires a box or two to stand on, but it is only because they are on lower ground to start — not because they are shorter to begin with. As useful as the picture was in starting conversations around “Equality vs. Equity,” we are basically blaming the person for being short, when in reality, we aren’t standing on a level playing field to start. We aren’t *allowed* to stand on a level playing field.
Secret Dunny Box
“I finally wrote a little about Secret Dunny Box: a bathroom installation that lets you listen to a secret message left for you by the previous visitor, but only if you leave a message for the next person. https://t.co/CzXiRYKl5R”
Poet Tips
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Frequent Quick Hits vs. Infrequent Deep Dives
Of course, there are downsides to each model of relationship. People whose friendships primarily consist of sporadic deep dives probably feel a higher degree of loneliness day-to-day during dry spells in-between the deep dive nourishment. (If you’re in an intimate romantic relationship, this can be okay because you tend to share minutia/quick hits with your spouse so don’t need to lean on friends as much for this.) People whose friendships primarily consist of regular quick check-ins and texts and workday lunches probably feel some lack of depth with some of their so-called “close friends.” They realize that after years of “how was your day?” conversations and staying up to speed on the real time relationship drama or work battles that will someday be easily forgotten — they realize that they’ve never explored life’s deeper questions with their friend.
Love, Happiness, and Time
Many of us think of love and happiness as an object – a thing to obtain. And once we have it, we’re scared to let it go. But there’s a better way to look at it – and even create more of it, without fear of loss.
No More Forever Projects
It took me a long time to see past forever projects. I told myself that making promises gave beginnings gravity. I labeled my newsletter a “lifelong project” not long after I started it. I called /mentoring a “movement” the day I announced it. Commitment marked a project as something w
“One true joy still is discovering a well written blog/personal site...”
February Resolutions
January was the month with a thousand days that would not die, but now it’s February and these tweets by my friend Mark Larson popped up in my head: What good is February? I used to think. February is a good month to die. February is a month for florists, with its Valentine’s Day bouquets and
Expectations of January and February
We expect too much from January and not enough from February.— Mark Larson (@mlarson) February 3, 2012
Launch Risk
A Monday Morning in Brooklyn
We stop in front of a vacant store front for a long kiss and so I can wish a positive happy week since we have separate evenings planned.
Nathan Jurgenson’s First Book
excited to say i wrote a book about photography and social media! it's out with @VersoBooks in April and you can pre-order it now if you'd like: https://t.co/lD43PwRjJa pic.twitter.com/bmOt0U7R5W— nathanjurgenson (@nathanjurgenson) February 4, 2019
Ungoogleability
The fact that I have allowed the illusion of the internet’s regard for me to seep so deeply into my unconscious mind makes me nervous. Like any belief system, it only becomes visible when it breaks down.
Kate’s Twitter Following List
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200,000 Index Cards
Before Linkedin, contact books, address books, or the personal CRM, David Rockefeller had 200,000 index cards.
Jason’s Twitter Following List
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SFPC Teachers Retreat 2018
by Taeyoon Choi
Misframe’s Archive Page
Why wasn’t I consulted?
Every single time some stranger online says something dumb or rude or completely beside the point to me, I think of Paul Ford’s “Why wasn’t I consulted?”: “Why wasn't I consulted,” which I abbreviate as WWIC, is the fundamental question of the web. It is the rule from which other rules are derived. Humans have
Apple’s $9 engineering marvel no one wants
On notifying others of a passing
Betteridge’s Law of Headlines
On the function of memory
“the function of memory is not to document the past (as always the same, always available for rote recall) but to produce the past in the present moment”
The Evolution of the Alphabet
From Matt Baker of UsefulCharts, this chart traces the evolution of our familiar alphabet from its Proto-Sinaitic roots circa 1850-1550 BC. It's tough to see how the pictographic forms of the original script evolved in
Mood as Extrapolation Engine
I believe that moods (or less colloquially, states of mind) can be used not just defensively, making the best of whatever mood you’re in (as I described
On FB's shadow versus real version of yourself
the shadow version of you that Facebook creates is its property; it's what's targeted etc.; meanwhile that entity is used against you (it's used to determine what you're qualified to see), which intensifies pressure on us to adopt that as our "real self— Rob Horning (@robhorning) January 25, 2019