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Our dreaming opportunity
Our dreaming opportunity
School and work push us to avoid real dreams. Dreamers are dangerous, impatient and unwilling to tolerate the status quo. Existing systems would prefer we simply fit in. The dreams we need to teach…
·seths.blog·
Our dreaming opportunity
Stories, standards, and the point
Stories, standards, and the point
What’s a car for? Transportation. With reliability. Status. A transaction with the bank. A transaction with the dealer. Your relationship with the neighbors. A statement about your style and …
·seths.blog·
Stories, standards, and the point
Protecting the sore spot
Protecting the sore spot
Everyone has one. It’s the part of ourselves we won’t look at, acknowledge or risk disturbing. It’s the story or trauma or situation that must be avoided at all costs. People will…
·seths.blog·
Protecting the sore spot
How to Take up Programming as a Hobby
How to Take up Programming as a Hobby
Programming? isn't it for the smart people out there? Isn't it boring? If these are your thoughts about programming, you are probably not familiar with programming. Many people out there do programming as a hobby.
·happyhobbyists.com·
How to Take up Programming as a Hobby
What we don’t say in Silicon Valley anymore
What we don’t say in Silicon Valley anymore
Mr. Bridge & The Foggy Morning. In my time writing about Silicon Valley, it has gone from being a place of naive curiosity to where posturing is everything. And the reason we have this state of…
·om.co·
What we don’t say in Silicon Valley anymore
How To Integrate ChatGPT into Obsidian
How To Integrate ChatGPT into Obsidian
It seems the entire world is talking about ChatGPT and it’s no wonder. Now you can integrate it into Obsidian.
·medium.com·
How To Integrate ChatGPT into Obsidian
It’s not what you deserve, but it is what it is
It’s not what you deserve, but it is what it is
The time we spend fretting over what just happened is time we’re not spending on addressing the problem itself. When your client or your boss turns down a great idea, it’s tempting to f…
·seths.blog·
It’s not what you deserve, but it is what it is
Conversations that Matter
Conversations that Matter
Back in the Soviet Union (1917-1991), a lot of books were banned, especially Western ones. So if you wanted important but forbidden voices to be heard,
·gapingvoid.com·
Conversations that Matter
Take a Homeric Bath
Take a Homeric Bath
One of the things I love about the Iliad and the Odyssey is that I always notice new things when I re-read them.  During my last read-through, the importance of baths in both Homeric works stuck out to me.  In Homer, the bath serves as a ritual in several ways. In both the Iliad and […]
·artofmanliness.com·
Take a Homeric Bath
Switching gears
Switching gears
When a car is switching gears, the engine is providing no forward power. And it’s more difficult to steer, brake or otherwise control the forward motion of the car as you change it from one g…
·seths.blog·
Switching gears
Where’s the grid?
Where’s the grid?
If you want to review the grocery list to see if you’ve forgotten anything, alphabetical order is a lousy way to do it. Instead, organizing it by course and then by dish creates a grid and th…
·seths.blog·
Where’s the grid?
Optimistic Nihilism: Tastes Like Chicken
Optimistic Nihilism: Tastes Like Chicken
A big part of being a leader is helping people find more meaning in their jobs. “Making meaning” is a fundamental credo in the culture-building game.
·gapingvoid.com·
Optimistic Nihilism: Tastes Like Chicken
Staring at decisions
Staring at decisions
Soap is 85 cents a bar or two for a dollar. Which should you buy? It depends. It depends on how much space you have, whether you like this brand, how full your cart is and whether or not you’…
·seths.blog·
Staring at decisions
Boundaries are levers
Boundaries are levers
And assertions are maps. Which means that: Budgets Timelines Plans Decision trees and projections are nothing to be afraid of. They’re a gift. They give us the chance to act as if, to describ…
·seths.blog·
Boundaries are levers
Podcast #858: The Affectionate, Ambiguous, and Surprisingly Ambivalent Relationship Between Siblings
Podcast #858: The Affectionate, Ambiguous, and Surprisingly Ambivalent Relationship Between Siblings
For most people, their siblings will be the longest-lasting relationships of their lives, potentially enduring all the way from birth until past the death of their parents.  Marked by both jealousy and conflict and love and loyalty, siblings are also some of our most complicated relationships. While a little over half of people describe their relationships with their siblings as positive, […]
·artofmanliness.com·
Podcast #858: The Affectionate, Ambiguous, and Surprisingly Ambivalent Relationship Between Siblings
Sunday Firesides: Everyone's Just Trying to Make It in the World
Sunday Firesides: Everyone's Just Trying to Make It in the World
When someone shares too-private information on Instagram in the search for likes. When someone does any kind of dance on TikTok. When someone excitedly joins a multi-level marketing scheme. When someone swears they’re turning over a new leaf for the sixth time in as many years. When someone acts like they’re the first person to […]
·artofmanliness.com·
Sunday Firesides: Everyone's Just Trying to Make It in the World
The next big thing
The next big thing
This is the season for all the lists–the hot authors, singers and restaurants in any given genre. If you’re on the list, congratulations! You’re the next big thing. For now. But t…
·seths.blog·
The next big thing
Satisfaction and progress in open-ended work
Satisfaction and progress in open-ended work
When we’re in execution mode, we swim in signs of our progress. A day’s work stands crisply in some endless checklist: four problems solved; three features added; check and check. Am I on track? Did I...
·blog.andymatuschak.org·
Satisfaction and progress in open-ended work
Successful habits through smoothly ratcheting targets
Successful habits through smoothly ratcheting targets
Adopting new habits is hard! What a shame: New Year’s resolutions could represent such a bright spark of optimism. Instead, they’re a clichéd punchline on the futility of human will. Certainly, my own...
·blog.andymatuschak.org·
Successful habits through smoothly ratcheting targets
What “Work” Looks Like
What “Work” Looks Like
Writing about the big beautiful mess that is making things for the world wide web.
·blog.jim-nielsen.com·
What “Work” Looks Like
Sooner or later…
Sooner or later…
Random events are unevenly distributed and rarely arrive on time. Resilience and frequency increase the chances that the break we are hoping for will arrive when we need it. The resilience to keep …
·seths.blog·
Sooner or later…
It was only a matter of time
It was only a matter of time
The question, of course, is how long? We’ve been working hard on fusion for sixty years (using ‘we’ to include myself with all of humanity, not because I’m a physicist). The…
·seths.blog·
It was only a matter of time
Trying not to Try
Trying not to Try
The philosopher and sinologist, Edward Slingerland was on the Infinite Loops podcast recently, where he discussed among other things his 2014 book,
·gapingvoid.com·
Trying not to Try