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The first rule of management is gold
The first rule of management is gold
There’s a cornerstone of Western thought, calledThe Golden Rule. Basically, it says (as it says in the Bible), “Do unto others as you would want done to
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The first rule of management is gold
Some questions
Some questions
Who’s it for? What’s it for? What change do you seek to make? What’s the hard part? If you could learn one skill that would help your project, what would it be? How can you tell i…
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Some questions
Problems now (problems later)
Problems now (problems later)
People always address now problems before they work on later problems. Every time. On one night in 2004, you might have had two choices. You could go out for a fancy dinner with friends, or you cou…
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Problems now (problems later)
Handmade, original and significant
Handmade, original and significant
There are still pockets of our culture where a single individual can create and share a body of work that’s resonant and unique. I’ve become hooked on a podcast called A History of Rock Music…
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Handmade, original and significant
Sunday Firesides: What Feels Like Stress Is . . .
Sunday Firesides: What Feels Like Stress Is . . .
Amidst all the preparation required to leave for a trip — all the ticket purchasing, itinerary planning, suitcase packing, and checklist reviewing — you sometimes start to wonder: “Man, is dealing with all this stress even worth it?” We’re taught to think that stress = bad. And stress certainly can be detrimental when it isn’t […]
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Sunday Firesides: What Feels Like Stress Is . . .
What Everyone Knows
What Everyone Knows
Most of "what everyone knows" is true. Most of our knowledge as modern human beings is shared with many others. Everyone knows the capital of France is Paris, and it is true. Everyone knows how many letters in the alphabet,
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What Everyone Knows
Podcast #810: How to Turn a Boy Into a Man
Podcast #810: How to Turn a Boy Into a Man
A lot of young men today struggle in finding their footing in adulthood. They feel lost, directionless, and unsure of who they are and how to confidently and competently navigate the world. Part of the reason for this is that most young men today lack something which was once a part of nearly every culture […]
·artofmanliness.com·
Podcast #810: How to Turn a Boy Into a Man
I'm a pro declutterer - how to do it quicker and easier using 9 simple tips
I'm a pro declutterer - how to do it quicker and easier using 9 simple tips
IF you feel like the mess has gotten away from you in your home, starting the decluttering process can be overwhelming. But speaking to the US Sun, pro organizer Siân Pelleschi has shared her simpl…
·the-sun.com·
I'm a pro declutterer - how to do it quicker and easier using 9 simple tips
No, You Haven't Forgotten Everything - Scott H Young
No, You Haven't Forgotten Everything - Scott H Young
Can't remember that book you read ages ago? Your mind isn't broken. Forgetfulness is actually a powerful feature of the brain.
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No, You Haven't Forgotten Everything - Scott H Young
Are you smart?
Are you smart?
Smart is no longer memorization. It’s not worth much. Smart is no longer access to information. Everyone has that. Smart is: • Situational awareness • Filtering information • Troubleshooting …
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Are you smart?
How to Future
How to Future
How to future: A good futurist focuses on the 3 time phases: past, present, future. The best futurists I know are really keen historians and study the past to see the future. They look carefully at the past because most
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How to Future
Growth vs Evolution
Growth vs Evolution
We seek personal growth. But when we say "personal growth" we don't imagine us getting bigger, say gaining weight, or our ego enlarging, our head ballooning, or somehow we becoming giant in some way. Instead when we invoke "personal growth" we
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Growth vs Evolution
Marketing vs. promotion
Marketing vs. promotion
People often use the words to mean the same thing, but they’re different. If an exterminator puts signs and banners in front of a fancy house when they’re inside killing rats, that&#821…
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Marketing vs. promotion
The 54 Best Quotes on Courage
The 54 Best Quotes on Courage
Have you ever wondered why it is that being called a coward is considered such a grave insult? It’s because courage is the lynchpin of character — that which makes possible every single one of its other dimensions; as Samuel Johnson once said (and Winston Churchill later paraphrased): “courage is reckoned the greatest of all […]
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The 54 Best Quotes on Courage
📈 The Toxic Grind - Vadim Kravcenko
📈 The Toxic Grind - Vadim Kravcenko
The culture of always being ON and hustling. Every hobby needs to be a "side hustle", and every moment of your time needs to be productive The world has gone crazy with the cult of the constant grind.
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📈 The Toxic Grind - Vadim Kravcenko
Skepticism and Denial
Skepticism and Denial
Skepticism is a virtue. It requires a willingness to question conventional wisdom, and the guts to accept something after you discover that it’s actually true. Denialism, on the other hand, i…
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Skepticism and Denial
Career checkup template.
Career checkup template.
Fork this template! At Uma Chingunde’s suggestion, the learning circle I’m part of is doing a short detour on career trajectory, and I’ve written up a short template to use. This is similar to a career narrative, but with more focus on self-diagnosis than something presentable to others. I’ve been experimenting with reusable templates over on Infrastructure Engineering, and decided to try something similar here. (That experiment is itself inspired by Brie Wolfson’s use of templates in The Kool-Aid Factory.
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Career checkup template.
A forty-year career.
A forty-year career.
The Silicon Valley narrative centers on entrepreneurial protagonists who are poised one predestined step away from changing the world. A decade ago they were heroes, and more recently they’ve become villains, but either way they are absolutely the protagonists. Working within the industry, I’ve worked with quite a few non-protagonists who experience their time in technology differently: a period of obligatory toil required to pry open the gate to the American Dream.
·lethain.com·
A forty-year career.
The next train
The next train
It’s not a luxury, it’s a choice. We can build slack into our lives. We can create cycles so that we don’t need to dance with a crisis around time on a regular basis. If there&#82…
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The next train
Interested vs. interesting
Interested vs. interesting
Of course you’re interesting. There’s something about what you’ve done, what you say, how you show up in the world that’s worthy of interest. But that doesn’t mean tha…
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Interested vs. interesting
In search of hypocrites
In search of hypocrites
Why would we want to wait until someone is perfect before we give them a chance to make things better? Each of us is part of a system, cogs in a process that rewards us for certain actions based on…
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In search of hypocrites
Failing in the trough
Failing in the trough
There’s a time gap. Marketers raise expectations in order to get someone to sign up and try a product and service. And (hopefully) there’s satisfaction, delight and remarkability once t…
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Failing in the trough
Personal responsibility
Personal responsibility
It’s complicated. Because we made it complicated. Our culture is built on the principle that people are responsible for what they do. And then we spend time and effort diffusing the responsib…
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Personal responsibility
Expressing something
Expressing something
In an episode of a podcast I really respect, three of the experts quoted used words that I was familiar with: Debunk, gaslighting and cult. These are powerful words, words with specific and evocati…
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Expressing something
Sunday Firesides: Step Back From the Canvas
Sunday Firesides: Step Back From the Canvas
Growing up, did you ever do one of those puzzles where you were shown a hyper-zoomed-in photo of some object or animal and had to guess what it was? It could be hard to recognize what you were looking at until you flipped to the zoomed-out answer. “Oh, it’s a butterfly.” Those ultra-close-up photos represent […]
·artofmanliness.com·
Sunday Firesides: Step Back From the Canvas
The delay
The delay
Sometimes we’re not that good with time. If people got a hacking cough and a chronic disease an hour after smoking their first cigarette, it’s unlikely many people would smoke. If earth…
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The delay