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Podcast #795: The U-Shaped Curve of Happiness
Podcast #795: The U-Shaped Curve of Happiness
If you’re someone who’s a decade or two out from your high school graduation, do you ever find yourself thinking that you’re just not as happy as you were back then? Of course all the positive-thinking self-talk then kicks in and you think, “Well, maybe I actually wasn’t that happy before. I do like my […]
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Podcast #795: The U-Shaped Curve of Happiness
Coiling ropes
Coiling ropes
Professionals put things away slowly so that they’ll be ready quickly when needed. Investing time now for time later.
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Coiling ropes
But Doesn't A Simple Life Get Boring?!
But Doesn't A Simple Life Get Boring?!
I'm having one of these days today that are a little too productive. I have Fridays off for the rest of the month to use up last year's vacation days - and today was just a week of a day. And to think that it all started off so decidedly unproductive, with me waking up an hour late, then staying
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But Doesn't A Simple Life Get Boring?!
Sunday Firesides: You Are a Sojourner
Sunday Firesides: You Are a Sojourner
Do you ever feel restless? You figure you need a new job or relationship or morning routine. You wonder if a vacation or a move will remedy your discontent. Yet no matter what app you download, goal you make, or trip you take, you never feel entirely satisfied, never entirely happy, never entirely free from […]
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Sunday Firesides: You Are a Sojourner
When the gauge is broken
When the gauge is broken
When your watch stops, it’s unlikely that you believe that time is now standing still. It’s obviously the watch that’s broken, not time. But when a metric on our culture or a comp…
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When the gauge is broken
Convenience and boredom
Convenience and boredom
The last fifty years have seen a worldwide effort to maximize one and eliminate the other. Marketers and technologists work overtime to create convenience. We’ve gone from hunting and growing…
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Convenience and boredom
The worst
The worst
The worst golfer in town came in last in the club tournament. Actually, that’s not true. The worst golfer didn’t even enter. Well, that’s not true either. The worst golfer doesn&#…
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The worst
Things to feel bad about
Things to feel bad about
You might have a list of them. In fact, many of us do, and consult it quite often. The list is defective for a number of reasons: It’s not accurate. There are things that aren’t right i…
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Things to feel bad about
The resolution of communication
The resolution of communication
What’s better, a phone call or a zoom call? Which creates more intimacy, a meeting in person or a hand-written letter? The only answer is: it depends. It’s tempting to believe that bein…
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The resolution of communication
And maybe it’s enough
And maybe it’s enough
To feel sufficient, to be satisfied with what we have: Chisoku in Japanese. Of course, by some measures, there’s never enough. We can always come up with a reason why more is better, or bette…
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And maybe it’s enough
The Insanely Difficult Standards of History's Hardest P.E. Program
The Insanely Difficult Standards of History's Hardest P.E. Program
In most modern high schools, P.E. is a complete blow-off class — something to take when you don’t play a sport, and have to fulfill a health/fitness-related elective. Participants often sit on the bleachers and talk, or half-heartedly play some basketball.  There was a time in this country when P.E. was taken more seriously, however, […]
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The Insanely Difficult Standards of History's Hardest P.E. Program
“Not a heavy lift”
“Not a heavy lift”
If you work with your hands and your back, avoiding a heavy lift is totally understandable. For many of us, though, we work with time or with trust. If someone asks you to endorse their new project…
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“Not a heavy lift”
Sunday Firesides: Boredom Is Evil
Sunday Firesides: Boredom Is Evil
What are ostensibly the most meaningful arenas of life — work, school, church, long-term relationships — are often boring. There are those who defend the element of boredom in such things as not only tolerable, but necessary and even laudable. Boredom builds character, the thinking goes. It’s a sign of seriousness and commitment, something integral […]
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Sunday Firesides: Boredom Is Evil
The physical therapy metaphor
The physical therapy metaphor
For many ailments, physical therapy shows some of the best results. We can learn a lot from this for our own projects, organizations and narratives. Physical therapy often works better than pills o…
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The physical therapy metaphor
The surprising thing about expectations
The surprising thing about expectations
When you meet expectations, when you make a promise and keep it, when your quality is on spec—we say “of course.” On the other hand, if you relentlessly raise expectations, if you overp…
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The surprising thing about expectations
The Power Of Working For Free Or Cheap
The Power Of Working For Free Or Cheap
Last week, I received an odd text message from a friend, who is the 21 year old daughter of another friend, asking me if I had a bandsaw. I was confused at first because I wondered what she wanted with a bandsaw, but also because I realized that actually, I don't own one. It's not a tool that I
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The Power Of Working For Free Or Cheap
Sunday Firesides: Relationships Over Willpower
Sunday Firesides: Relationships Over Willpower
It’s famously been said that every individual is the average of the five people he interacts with most. Life experience certainly bears out the validity of this truism. A teenager falls into a friend group that practically undoes the influence of a previous decade and a half of parenting. A soldier goes into a deployment […]
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Sunday Firesides: Relationships Over Willpower
Re-calibrating
Re-calibrating
When an entrepreneur gets funded, it’s often difficult for them to start spending money on assets–the old limits fade slowly. What used to be smart is now dumb. What used to too risky i…
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Re-calibrating
12 Hard Things You Can Do TODAY
12 Hard Things You Can Do TODAY
In January, we made the case for doing hard shit. The response was epic. There seems to be a growing recognition that a little hardship can
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12 Hard Things You Can Do TODAY
How to Decide What to Work On - Scott H Young
How to Decide What to Work On - Scott H Young
Working hard doesn't matter if it's on the wrong things. Thoughts on making the hard decisions about what to focus on.
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How to Decide What to Work On - Scott H Young
The Small Steps of Giant Leaps - Farnam Street
The Small Steps of Giant Leaps - Farnam Street
One of the most beneficial skills you can learn in life is how to consistently put yourself in a good position. Strong positions are not an accident. Weak positions aren't bad luck.
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The Small Steps of Giant Leaps - Farnam Street
How to Remember What You Read - Farnam Street
How to Remember What You Read - Farnam Street
The benefits of reading are negated if you forget remember what you read. This article discusses a tested system to increase retention. Learn how to use active reading to remember more from books.
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How to Remember What You Read - Farnam Street
Useful Not Accurate - Farnam Street
Useful Not Accurate - Farnam Street
The real test for an idea, theory, or advice is utility. The more useful, the better.
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Useful Not Accurate - Farnam Street
Car Camping Is the Worst
Car Camping Is the Worst
We’ve sampled several avenues for getting a dose of nature and we’re ready to declare: car camping is the worst. At least relative to the other options.
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Car Camping Is the Worst
The things you can’t see
The things you can’t see
Do you remember all the elements you didn’t used to notice? It might be the way you see typography now, or the tuning of an orchestra. Or the alignment in the mouldings of a house you’r…
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The things you can’t see