Expert Advice For Divorcing Women: Coping Emotionally, While You’re Thinking Financially In my work as a Divorce Financial Strategist™, I always advise clients to Think Financially, Not Emotionally® as they are negotiating their divorce financial settlement. Thinking financially results in the best possible outcome and establishes a secure foundation for your future as an independent single woman. By contrast, I’ve seen time and time again that thinking emotionally leads to short-sighted financial decisions and usually, deep regrets. When you’re in the middle of a contentious divorce, ho...