one of the things i'm wrestling with today is the idea of coming home from work and feeling "entitled" to not helping with setting the dishes, being present and active in evening duties, and so on
Jonathan on X: "I think the best metaphor for inner work is pushing something up your ass it’s the same cycles of tension and relaxation forcing doesn’t work but slow patient persistent effort does there are inevitable sudden contractions tht make you feel like you’re back where you started" / X
crazy inner work self improvement analogy to putting things up the butt