I’m glad people are learning that the cost of community is annoyance / inconvenience/ sharing your space and things. More of this realisation please.— martha (@mxmsworld) March 11, 2025
Tyler Alterman on X: "On Finding Your People: I’m told I have an unusual talent for finding wonderful people. Below is my strategy for having a rich social life in any large city Disclaimer: This will require you acting in a way that is not normal. You may need to decide whether you want to be normal" / X
I’m told I have an unusual talent for finding wonderful people. Below is my strategy for having a rich social life in any large city
Disclaimer: This will require you acting in a way that is not normal. You may need to decide whether you want to be normal…
— Tyler Alterman (@TylerAlterman)
I've been feeling very under-nourished in my male friendships recently
Thread on dearth of emotional investment in platonic male friendships
Visakan Veerasamy on Twitter / X
replies are a great example of how health is invisible to the healthy https://t.co/DIXv7cS6Eh— Visakan Veerasamy (@visakanv) February 3, 2024
christian on X: "what's the best strategy for finding people who are intellectually curious, physically and mentally healthy, fun to go out with, good professionals, and with good character?" / X
Visakan Veerasamy on X: "tell me a random detail about a cool older friend that you admired when you were a teenager? (wanna piece together a composite portrait of the cool big sis/bro archetype, for fiction purposes)" / X
keta on X: "this feels like an indictment on a shifting nature of friendship and social circle dynamics…. i care less about the absolute numbers but there must be a more insidious reason for why more people aren’t being introduced through mutual connections" / X
(1) stud enthusiast on X: "a year long situationship not crazy right" / X
Sasha Chapin on X
Omg, you can have a relationship where your partner is actively and intelligently and inventively striving to meet your needs on an ongoing basis, wtf
Ava on X
forget look gaps or iq gaps can we talk about interestingness gaps in relationships