PUA terms with definitions and origins, based on literature from Neil Strauss, Ross Jeffries, Ice White, Richard Bandler and John Grinder.
Breaking rapport
A behavior, statement or question that is aimed at letting the girl know that her behavior is unacceptable and that the man is losing interest.
Bullshit
In message game terms (See: Message game), anything you say that does not take a step towards meeting a girl is called bullshit. Comfort would not be bullshit, but small talk would. Example; when you message a girl asking how she is or when you talk to her about anything without a purpose of meeting. (Coined by Ice White)
Comfort
Often used to gauge how comfortable and safe a woman feels in a given moment. Both attraction and comfort are needed in order to successfully seduce anyone.
Flake
When a girl cancels a date or does not show up.
Keyboard jockey
A PUA who is active on online groups and forums but lacks real experience or doesn’t go out. Thus, he spends too much time in front of a keyboard.
Kino
Kinesthesia; touching or being touched with intent or purpose of arousal or to proceed to further sexual contact. Example; when you hold her hands; when you stroke her hair, when you hold her hips or shoulders. (Coined by Ross Jeffries)
