Creating Neuro-Friendly Event Spaces: The Retreat Project — THINKING PERSON'S GUIDE TO AUTISM
Retreat isn't just a quiet room, it is an explicitly neurodivergent space. It's a place to stim freely, and find some neurodivergent kinfolk.
I know that, for me, it’s important to have spaces like this because it gives a sense of community to people who tend to be pushed to the sidelines. This gives us somewhere to unmask, and be with others who know what we’re going through. It gives people a chance to go to events that otherwise make them anxious, or just wholly uncomfortable.
The Comic Arts Festival is an event I personally love going to, but it’s true, it can be extremely overwhelming to go to an event like that. I know that having somewhere calm and inviting to go sit, de-stress, and just be yourself will make the experience of the whole event that much better.
I know that for me, I generally just don’t go to any busy events because they’re so overwhelming with all the people and noise and everything.
I have heard of quiet rooms at some conventions. What I’ve seen in my Google searches is that the focus is often just on being quiet. While that’s great, I don’t think that’s really designed from a neurodivergent perspective. Sitting still in a quiet room isn’t necessarily the best thing, when you need to stim, and the fluorescent lights are buzzing, and you can hear the electricity in the walls.
As for barriers, the biggest barrier is space. Organisers just aren’t thinking about it when they book space. So I guess the biggest barrier is actually that the neurodivergent community and our needs are still an afterthought, if they think of us at all.
Retreat isn’t just a quiet room, it is an explicitly neurodivergent space. Nothing about us without us, right? It’s a place to stim freely, drop the mask a little, and find some neurodivergent kinfolk. We’ll have chairs but also cushions for sitting on the floor. There will be different kinds of stim toys, stuff for doodling/drawing, and some plushies for hugging. We will also have ear plugs and eye masks for people who need to block out some stimulation. I also want to make it clear that we are operating based on a clear set of values grounded in intersectionality and community care, the room will always be staffed, and we will be actively maintaining a safe space for BIPOC, LGBTQIA, fat, and disabled folk.
As it stands, the biggest barrier is space. Just like with so many issues around accessibility, meeting the needs of the neurodivergent community is still seen as something extra when it should be the default. Our needs aren’t “special,” they’re just different and we have just as much right to enjoy events like conventions and markets as anyone else.