The Very Real Mental Health Impacts of Upholding the Model Minority Myth
The importance of maintaining "face" in Asian cultures goes back thousands of years. In the US, where Asian Americans also grapple with a rampant high-achiever stereotype, people are suffering silently.
‘Suck It Up’ or Pray: Advice That Almost Killed Me
I was beaten quite a bit as a child. I wasn’t a “bad kid” or a troublemaker, I just happened to come from a violent place (America) and a culture (small town, black, 1980s; take your pick) where beating children was de rigueur.
7 Brilliant Life Hacks You Can Only Learn In Therapy
Everyone loves a good life hack — especially when it seems like something you can only learn in therapy — because therapists have a way of helping you come at daily problems from a slightly different angle. Whether it's a tip that can make your…
How To Support A Loved One With PTSD — From Someone Who Has It
I don’t remember too many of the details, except that we were in a hotel parking lot and I couldn’t have been more than 24 or 25. I do, however, remember every facet of that moment, down to the…
'In the Mirror, What I Saw Was a Monster': Living with Body Dysmorphic Disorder
Those who suffer from body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) fixate obsessively on one or more perceived flaws in their appearance, resulting in depression and social anxiety—and, in extreme cases, thoughts of suicide. But despite the severity of the condition...
I Have Bipolar Disorder & This Is What A Mixed Episode Feels Like For Me
I woke up alone in the car I live in to a flat tire. My immediate resolution for the day was to decide how best to kill myself. It sounds extreme, I know; but that's exactly what living with bipolar disorder is like for me. I was diagnosed with…
The conversation around eating disorders often centers on young girls. As adults still coping with bulimia, for the first time my mom and I talk about our progress, pasts, and enduring anxieties.
The standard conception of the disorder is based on studies of “hyperactive young white boys.” For females, it comes on later, and has different symptoms.
I have borderline personality disorder. Here are 6 things I wish people understood.
Many people think those of us with BPD are maniacs, "crazy" in the classical sense of the term. But the disorder is far more complex than that, and people like me are proof that even the most serious cases can get better.