I told a few people I would rec some IM fic, and since I can't do anything by halves here's a huge rec list of all the fic I've found so far that I really like (Gen, Tony/Pepper, Tony/Rhodey, etc.), plus a list of all the IM movie fandom lj communities I've found, and a couple of comics canon…
His brother is leather and talismans and sweat and gunsmoke, and that’s just not who he is anymore. Sam at Stanford, trying to remake himself as normal. Chilling and sad.
Five Rumors About Tony Stark That Aren’t (Entirely) True by
And without the camera’s evidence, it is Mr. Stark's word against his when he suggests that this was in fact a "tender life-changing moment" between Mr. Stark and his creation and Ms. Potts and Lt. Col. Rhodes could "never understand their love."
She isn’t his first lay, but she is his first love Dean and Kaylee, strawberries and the long hot summer. Sweet and beautiful and heartbreaking. *sigh*
A Small and 100% Innocent Token of Gratitude by svilleficrecs
"I mean that I might be in love with you. Rhodey thinks I am. For Christ's sake, *Jarvis* even thinks I am." / "Jarvis has an opinion on this?" / "Please. Jarvis has an opinion on everything." The one with the footrubs. you know what I mean.
Lovely remix of Salvation Lets Their Wings Unfold, from John's perspective. I really like the John/Mary here, and also the way she uses repetition and narrative in the story - this is a story about telling stories, and how they limn the truth.
This is full of flirty, bantery UST, but it takes a nice turn for the serious in the middle - Tony would come up with that joking-but-not-really solution, and Pepper would be tempted. Lovely.