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Anyway. I think I got sidetracked. My point is that this colleagues' advice? helped me tremendously and now I'd like to pass it on. The bottleneck for success and fulfilment and even personal growth probably doesn't look like what we think it looks like. It probably looks more like finishing your projects. Or at least understanding why you don't want to finish them. And if you're avoiding something, there's a part of you that doesn't want to do it. You need to be in dialogue with it, no matter how much it horrifies you, or how thoroughly you've buried that part. Enough already. Now I'm rambling because I'm insecure about the blog post. You have to press send. Finish your projects.
秘诀在于:出现、付诸行动,然后离开。
以工匠般的职业精神配上不屈的意志。就是这么简单。不被任何事情干扰,不让任何事动摇你的目标。一旦做出决定,就拒绝退缩,拒绝妥协。
并接受一个事实:高质量的长期结果需要高质量的长期专注。不要情绪化,不要戏剧化,不要因为小的波折而自责。学会享受和欣赏这个过程。这一点尤其重要,因为你在实际旅程中所花的时间会远远超过最终取得胜利的短暂时刻。
当然,当胜利来临时,尽情庆祝。但更重要的是,从失败中汲取教训。事实上,如果你没有经常遇到失败,那说明你努力得还不够。而且,绝不允许自己接受低于最佳表现的结果。
放下对时间的执念。需要多久,就花多久。
如果你致力于一个长期目标,而不是一系列较小的中间目标,那么你只需要做出一个决定并坚持执行。清晰、简单、直接。这比在每一步都需要做出小决定以维持方向要容易得多。后者会给你太多机会不经意间偏离目标。那个唯一的决定,是工具箱中最强大的工具之一。