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Understanding these simple brain tricks can be a game-changer for preventing tantrums. These were just 3 of my favorite from my friend Jon Fogel's (...

Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire. Jimmy on Relationships · Original audio

My kid broke my laptop and I chose not to lose my shit - it wasn't easy - but it gave me a chance to teach Billie what I've recently learned: that uncomfortable feelings are there for a reason and...

Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to handle emotionally immature adults (this includes some of your parents).

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When to discuss bad behaviour with kids? This is a clip from the latest BratBusters Parenting Podcast Episode on the key to leadership parenting....

Welcome to my channel! I'm Terry Real, a relationship and couples therapist with over 30 years of experience. I created Relational Life Therapy (RLT), an integrative approach that empowers individuals and couples to build authentic, honest, and intimate connections. Here, you'll find actionable advice for improving your marriage and relationships, plus guidance for therapists and mental health professionals. Subscribe for expert tips on love, communication, and personal growth.

Shadow Work: What It Is And When To Do It: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LziBXG0y-1k The Anxious Attachment Style's Biggest Blindspot: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VBJyaBy_kxQ The Avoidant Attachment Style's Biggest Blindspot: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=esJj49ARgVA The Dark Night Of The Soul In The Attachment Healing Process: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RvR-GALZ2BE

What’s the importance of setting boundaries? Setting boundaries improves your mental health and mood, and they help us to build trust and safety.

As kids mature socially they need to learn how to set and respect boundaries. Teaching them about empathy and self-awareness is a good place to start.

Healthy boundaries are a way to ensure your needs at met. Here’s how to set healthy boundaries in different relationships.

If you've ever seen a decorative picket fence you know not all gates are secure. Here's how to build up your boundaries.

This talk was given at a local TEDxSnoIsleLibraries event and produced independently of the TED Conferences. Sarri Gilman has found that clear boundaries enhance relationships and the quality of life. Sarri is author of “Transform Your Boundaries,” which she based on insights gleaned from decades of experience as a marriage and family therapist. She is the founder of two organizations that support the needs of children and teens facing homelessness. In both, she created partnerships and unique programs to increase the chances of success for youth in overwhelming circumstances. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx

Join us in an eye-opening conversation with Bedros Keuilian as we discuss the importance of having core values and non-negotiables in life. Discover how sayi...

What drives some women to emotionally withdraw in relationships, and how can we bridge the gap to create deeper connections? This episode unravels the roots of avoidant attachment in women and provides actionable advice for both partners to foster secure, loving relationships. Discover how early life experiences shape self-protective behaviors and learn why these women are not broken but have developed strategies to safeguard their emotions. For men, understanding and navigating these complexities means steering clear of the savior complex and instead, building a genuine, secure bond. But understanding is only half the battle. We also dive into the intricacies of effective communication with avoidant partners. Uncover three transformative strategies that help create an environment of trust and openness: taking up more emotional space, expressing gratitude over criticism, and setting clear expectations. By leaning into these methods, you can turn potential conflicts into opportunities for closeness and mutual understanding. Tune in to master the art of incremental need-sharing and learn how to shift from self-protection to relational connection, making your relationship stronger and more fulfilling. FREE RESOURCE THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO ATTACHMENT https://training.mantalks.com/attachment-guide Talking points: Avoidant Women, Relationship Communication, Secure Attachments HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Dating Avoidant Women (10:41) Building Healthy Relationship Communication (21:05) Effective Communication With Avoidant Partners 📘 RESOURCES FOR YOU FREE The Ultimate Guide To Attachment: https://training.mantalks.com/attachment-guide FREE Shadow Work Journal: https://training.mantalks.com/shadow-guide-download FREE A Man’s Guide To Ending Codependency: https://training.mantalks.com/codependency My book, Men's Work: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Online men’s group, The Alliance: https://mantalks.com/alliance/ 🔗 CONNECT WITH ME Follow the journey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/ Visit the website for more resources and tools: https://mantalks.com Join the newsletter: https://training.mantalks.com/newsletter-signup 🎥 OTHER VIDEOS YOU MIGHT LIKE How to Fix an Anxious-Avoidant Relationship: https://youtu.be/8PyY5wI8nG0 Dating An Avoidant Person? Here's 4 Ways To THRIVE With Them: https://youtu.be/8SEF2ALql8I 7 Signs Of Avoidant Attachment Style: https://youtu.be/FgWrgbM5rec ⚡️ WHO IS CONNOR BEATON & MANTALKS? Welcome to the ManTalks YouTube channel. I’m Connor Beaton, and my mission is to help men break through the barriers holding them back. Whether it’s in your relationships, your career, or your mental health, this channel is dedicated to giving you the tools, conversations, and insights you need to step into the man you’re meant to be. Here, you’ll find real, unfiltered discussions on relationships, masculinity, purpose, and self-mastery. Subscribe, tune in, and start living a life with more depth, purpose, and power. #AvoidantWomen, #RelationshipCommunication, #SecureAttachments, #EmotionalSpace, #ProductiveConflict, #Dating, #Self-Protection, #Vulnerability, #Gratitude, #ClearExpectations, #Savior-OrientedMen, #Damaged, #EarlyLifeExperiences, #ChallengingRelationships, #Fathers, #EmotionalDisconnection, #SexualDisconnection, #NurturingRelationships, #InternalStories, #IncrementalSharing, #Non-ThreateningRequests, #RelationalConnection, #AvoidingConflict, #Openness, #InternalReality, #StableEnvironment, #Trust, #SupportiveRelationship

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The HOW TO LOVE AN AVOIDANT MAN video course is now available! write a happy ending to your love story! https://adamlanesmith.com/how-to-love-an-avoidant-man/ If you want to learn to build a fulfilling lifelong relationship with the man you love and help him understand and cherish you in return, pick up your copy right now. Welcome to my channel! I'm Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist with over 15 years of experience in psychology and relationships. In today's video, I will reveal the key reason why 98% of dating relationships fail and how you can ensure your relationship is among the successful 2%. With my extensive background as a couples therapist and relationship coach, I've developed a proven system to address and fix relationship issues. In this video, we dive into one of the most common and destructive relationship dynamics: the pairing of anxious attachment styles with avoidant attachment styles. You'll learn: What is Attachment Theory? The foundation of how we connect with caregivers as children and how it impacts our adult relationships. Anxious Attachment Style: Characteristics, behaviors, and the underlying fear of abandonment. The spectrum from nurturing to toxic anxious attachment. Benefits and risks they bring into relationships. Avoidant Attachment Style: Characteristics, behaviors, and the underlying belief in the unreliability of others. The spectrum from ethical to manipulative avoidant attachment. Benefits and risks they bring into relationships. The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: The painful cycle of chasing and running that characterizes these relationships. The impact on both partners and potential long-term consequences. Path to Healing: How both anxious and avoidant partners can become securely attached. The steps to building a fulfilling and secure relationship together. Importance of willingness and mutual desire for change. Exclusive Resources Don't miss out on exclusive tips, strategies, and special offers! Sign up for my free newsletter by clicking the link below. Get practical advice delivered straight to your inbox to help you build a strong, healthy, and loving relationship. Next Steps Be sure to watch the follow-up video, "Can Anxious Avoidant Relationships Actually Work?" where I go even deeper into the dynamics and provide actionable steps to improve your relationship. If you enjoyed this video then I would recommend you give this video on avoidant attachment a watch: https://youtu.be/p7c9OvGg2AU Join The Mentorship Program: https://adamlanesmith.com/the-attachment-circle/ Subscribe to The Attachment Newsletter: https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-signup/ If you enjoyed this video and want more content like this, do me a favor: be sure to hit that like button, leave a comment, and don't forget to subscribe to the channel! Share it with your friends, and hit that notification bell so you never miss an update. 🛎️ Let's grow this amazing community together! 🚀 Work with Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist: https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://adamlanesmith.com/courses/ https://adamlanesmith.com/single-session/ The 4 Attachment Styles Guide - Free! 📥 https://adamlanesmith.com/the4attachments/ If you’ve struggled in dating or marriage and worry you’re not good enough, worry no more. The Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith wrote this guide to show you how to stop fearing abandonment and start building healthy relationships. Through his proven step-by-step method for repairing attachment, Adam will teach you what people really want from you, how to give and receive love without fear, what red flags to avoid, and how you can build a lifetime love with a partner you trust. Slaying Your Fear - A Book For People Who Grapple With Insecurity https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S33YGJZ Connect with Adam on your second preferred platform: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro X: https://twitter.com/adamlanesmith Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/ Chapters: 00:00:00 - The Number One Reason Relationships Fail 00:02:25 - Breakdown of Attachment Relationships 00:04:45 - Anxiously Attached People: Needs and Risks 00:06:52 - Lone Wolf Syndrome and Ethical Avoidance 00:09:10 - The Risks of Avoidant Attachment Styles in Relationships 00:11:27 - The Anxious-Avoidant Cycle 00:13:43 - The Ineffectiveness of Traditional Couples Therapy 00:16:02 - Healing Anxious-Avoidant Relationships 00:18:28 - Willingness to Make Changes in Relationships 00:20:54 - See You There

5 Tools For Building A Healthy Relationship With Yourself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2GVIGWY1G0

Brief presentation for a roundtable discussion led by Tavia Grant of The Globe and Mail, part of the #AfterMeToo campaign to transform how the entertainment industry deals with sexual assault and harassment. More at https://jimhopper.com/sexual-assault-and-the-brain/

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In this episode of The ManTalks Show, I dive into the dynamics of dating a woman who embodies more masculine energy. This isn't about fixing or changing her—it's about understanding why this happens and building a healthy, fulfilling relationship. I share insights on societal influences, emotional safety, and the pitfalls of power struggles. You'll learn how to ground yourself, foster trust, and connect with her in a way that nurtures both of you. Whether you're dating or married, these practical tips will help you thrive in your relationship. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction: Dating a Masculine Woman 01:17 - Why Women Embody Masculine Energy 09:03 - Building a Healthy Relationship Dynamic 09:28 - Letting Go of Power Struggles 12:58 - Grounding Yourself Instead of Competing 15:58 - Being the Water to Her Fire 18:36 - Evoking Emotional Expression 20:49 - Emotional Stability and Trust 21:45 - Conclusion: A Relationship as a Growth Journey 📘 RESOURCES FOR YOU FREE Shadow Work Journal: https://training.mantalks.com/shadow-guide-download FREE A Man’s Guide To Ending Codependency: https://training.mantalks.com/codependency My book, Men's Work: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Online men’s group, The Alliance: https://mantalks.com/alliance/ 🔗 CONNECT WITH ME Follow the journey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/ Visit the website for more resources and tools: https://mantalks.com Join the newsletter: https://training.mantalks.com/newsletter-signup 🎥 OTHER VIDEOS YOU MIGHT LIKE A Man's Guide To: Dating An Anxious Person: https://youtu.be/OzTXET0llUM The Key To Dating An Avoidant Woman: https://youtu.be/2wgeCeInHLY Gender Differences in Dating, Stress, Hormones & Emotional Intelligence - Dr. John Gray: https://youtu.be/oKWT3Cwg90M ⚡️ WHO IS CONNOR BEATON & MANTALKS? Welcome to the ManTalks YouTube channel. I’m Connor Beaton, and my mission is to help men break through the barriers holding them back. Whether it’s in your relationships, your career, or your mental health, this channel is dedicated to giving you the tools, conversations, and insights you need to step into the man you’re meant to be. Here, you’ll find real, unfiltered discussions on relationships, masculinity, purpose, and self-mastery. Subscribe, tune in, and start living a life with more depth, purpose, and power.

The anxious-avoidant relationship is one of the most common and most challenging dynamics out there. Follow these steps to bring back the love you both crave.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a form of short-term therapy that aims to improve couple relationships by rekindling the physical and emotional bond that can get sacrificed to disappointment in a partner and alienation from them, a common dynamic in distressed couples. If there is a motto for EFT, it is: “Hold me tight.”

Attachment styles help explain the way people feel and act in relationships. Learn more about how early childhood caregiving impacts the rest of our lives.

This paper introduces Socio-Emotional Relationship Therapy (SERT), an approach designed to intervene in socio-cultural processes that limit couples' ability to develop mutually supportive relationships, especially within heterosexual relationships. SERT integrates recent advances in neurobiology and …