“Suppose you are so taken aback by an act of micro-aggression that you don’t know how to respond in the moment? ‘I need to circle back’ is your safety net to invite the opportunity for a conversation at a later date.”
Here’s the thing. You might freeze up when you’re on the receiving end of a micro-aggression or simply witnessing one. You might not know what to say. You might be concerned that you’ll do something that makes the situation worse.
Stating that you’ll circle back sends the message you’re not okay with what just happened and buys you time to figure out the best course of action.