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you know social media is public, right?
you know social media is public, right?

some notes from Liy:

  • there is a difference between being authentic online and the death of privacy
  • Being authentic and real doesn’t mean that your social media presence has to reflect the rawest version of yourself
  • It can be easy to overshare when you’re tricked by the illusion of closeness. This illusion is very easy to fall into on the internet
  • There are more productive methods to dealing with heavy and confusing emotions than to simply disclose them to anyone with ears
  • oversharing is typically defined by the context of the situation
  • don’t feel that every single emotion and thought needs to be displayed to the outside world—because they don’t
  • "if you had taken a week more to understand how you felt, been patient, and had some self-control, we’d all be better for it. But now we’re here, and nobody likes it here. Why would you do that?"
  • As a general rule of thumb, understand how you feel and what you mean before you put blanket statements out into the world. It is difficult to take them back, and it’s definitely not desirable to have to keep amending and changing what you meant.
  • getting attention isn't necessarily good. shock value is more worthy of immediate attention
  • shock value = internet attention = fame and money
  • shock value = bad actions - shame
  • on the internet, all attention seems like approval. the only form of disapproval that works on the internet is not giving it attention
    • understand how you present yourself
  • show basic respect for other people
  • it is not vain or fake to want to present yourself well
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you know social media is public, right?
A Marxist Analysis of Shrek
A Marxist Analysis of Shrek

0:00 - do you know the muffin man? 1:16 - brief introduction to marxism 1:47 - class distinctions in shrek 2:55 - shrek 5:51 - donkey 7:52 - lord farquaad 8:23 - the political economy 10:00 - lord farquaad as political agent 12:39 - shrek as revolutionary 14:40 - shrek vs lord farquaad 16:24 - fiona and postmodernism 17:47 - dragon 18:23 - how revolutionary was the revolution? 19:53 - yes, i know the muffin man

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A Marxist Analysis of Shrek
Let's Talk About Parasocial Relationships and Parasocial Communities
Let's Talk About Parasocial Relationships and Parasocial Communities
liy: deep voice and speaks slowly, defines what it is and includes signs that a parasocial relationship has gone too far(“I do think if you could shift that energy to somebody that you do know in real life, that could help you build a relationship with them… could you use that energy to send things to someone that might send you things back?”), parasocial concern vs hate disguised as concern, intense fandoms who can encourage your parasocial attention and discourage change or valid critique, how social media lowers barrier of entry and the dangers of everyone having a platform, weaponising parasocial relationships through scamming micro-fandoms
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Let's Talk About Parasocial Relationships and Parasocial Communities
Matt Rife, The Patriarchy Won't Save You
Matt Rife, The Patriarchy Won't Save You
Shanspeare (45:00). liy: no need to know who matt rife is before jumping in. this is the essay if you want a compassionate and deep unpacking of the American masculinity crisis (which also influences men elsewhere). Shanspeare gives a historical look at the dangerous pipeline men have been shackled to since they were children designed to frustrate them into misogyny, self-loathing rage and violence. Great dress. And stay for the fire comment Nikki Giovanni made re: the limitations of James Baldwin’s imagination.
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Matt Rife, The Patriarchy Won't Save You
Games Where You're NOT the Main Character
Games Where You're NOT the Main Character
(14:51) Video games have an interesting relationship with the term "protagonist." While it should be obvious who the main character of a game is, sometimes it's a little ambiguous. In this video essay, we'll look at three games that challenge out notions of what a protagonist can be.
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Games Where You're NOT the Main Character